
let’s take a step toward your adoption journey — together
I’ve Been in Your Shoes – A Message from Marcy
Adopting through foster care comes with big questions: Is now the right time? Am I ready for this journey? What does the process actually look like? I’ve been in your shoes, and I created these resources to make your path clearer and easier.
In This Video, I Share:
How my personal experience adopting a sibling pair shaped my mission to help others.
The key resources I’ve developed, including my course, app, books, and podcast to guide you.
How to take the first step today—no matter where you are in the process.
Whatever brought you here, I’m so glad you’re taking this step. Watch the video to learn more about how I can support you on this journey.
Take the Next Step with Foster Care
Adoption Simplified
I've developed a 45-minute self-paced course that provides clarity and practical tools to navigate the foster care adoption process. Learn at your own pace, and if questions arise, I'm just a message away, ready to support you every step of the way.
Explore My Books for In-Depth Guidance
the forgotten adoption option
This guide helps you evaluate your own heart and simplifies the process of foster care adoption so you can help a child or sibling group who is hoping to be welcomed into a forever family.
Are you a Forever Family?
Dive into the pages of this inspiring children’s book, based on real families, and enjoy cheerful illustrations that celebrate what it means to be an adoptive family.
What to know when you
adopt through Foster Care
This essential guide offers real, anonymous stories on 45 key topics, along with practical tips for a successful journey.

Stay Organized with The Forgotten Adoption Option App
Get everything you need to prepare, process, and move forward with adopting a child or sibling group through the foster care system.
Designed as the perfect companion to my book, The Forgotten Adoption Option, this app simplifies the journey with essential tasks, insightful questions, and step-by-step guidance—bringing clarity to every stage of the process.
Listen and be inspired!
I’ve been where you are! Join me on my podcast as I interview people who have adopted, been adopted, or work in the child welfare system. Each season brings unique perspectives and practical advice.
FAQs
How do I get started with foster care adoption?
Starting can feel overwhelming, but I’ve simplified the process for you. The 45-minute course will walk you through each step, answer common questions, and help you feel confident in moving forward.
How can I stay organized throughout the process?
Keeping track of paperwork, timelines, and next steps is key to a smooth adoption process. The Forgotten Adoption Option App gives you a clear roadmap, organizes key tasks, and connects you with support.
What if I still have questions after taking the course?
That’s completely normal! My books go deeper into my personal experience and the foster care adoption process, helping you navigate challenges with practical advice and real-life stories.
What are the biggest challenges in adopting from foster care?
Every adoption journey comes with challenges, but preparation is key. The course and app provide strategies to navigate common hurdles, while the podcast and books offer real-life experiences to guide you.
What’s the best way to learn from others who have adopted?
Hearing real stories from families who have been through this journey can be incredibly helpful. My podcast shares candid conversations with adoptive parents, former foster youth, and professionals who offer valuable insights.
How long does the foster care adoption process take?
Timelines vary but often range from 6-18 months. Delays are common, so patience, organization, and empathy are key. My course and app provide a clear roadmap to help you navigate the process with confidence.
Start Your Journey with Confidence
Download Your Free Guide: "Top 5 Must-Know Tips for Successfully Adopting Through Foster Care”
Adopting through foster care is an incredibly rewarding journey—but it can also feel overwhelming. That’s why I’ve put together this free guide with the top 5 must-know tips to help you navigate the process with confidence.